It may be time for your loved one with dementia to move from their home to a memory care community – but they simply tell you “no.” Even though you’ve done your research and found a community that would be a good fit. How do you encourage them to start thinking about the move?

You can start by slowly introducing them to the community. Such as asking them out to lunch. Have a casual lunch together at the community but don’t set any expectations for either of you. Keep it casual. Then, wait a few weeks and go back a second time for lunch and walk around the community. If your loved one with dementia is feeling comfortable with the community, go back again and have them participate in a program or activity. Having them get familiar with the community before talking about moving will give them a better feeling of the environment.

Having your loved one with dementia experience the community before moving can help make the transition process easier.